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Oral Sex Guide

General Introduction

People have been using their mouths to stimulate each other sexually for about as long as there have been people. How about kissing each other? Men have been kissing women on their necks, ears, breasts, backs, thighs, and any where else they can think of that'll arouse them sexually ever since they found out it works. It didn't take long for some enterprising man to find out that kissing a woman's vulva worked, did it ever. The Latin word cunnilingus was coined to describe licking the vulva.
Men were not alone in searching for ways to arouse the opposite sex. Some equally enterprising woman found out that men liked for her to suck their penis, it worked just as well. The Latin word fellatio was coined to describe sucking the penis.
Let's define and use the more common words to describe men and women's genitalia and the various sexual acts. Pinus, cock; vulva, pussy; vagina, cunt; Coitus, fuck; cunnilingus, eating pussy; fellatio, sucking cock, blowjob; performing cunnilingus or fellatio, giving head; ejaculate, cum or shoot his load; orgasm, cum or climax; pubic hair, women muff or bush, men bush.
Many men and women, today probably most, use some form of oral massage or kissing of the sex organs as a normal part of foreplay to warm up their partners prior to fucking. They probably don't think of that as "giving head," and I would agree that it's not. It's simply a part of the foreplay used to prepare each other for fucking and hopefully achieving a sexual climax.
Giving head, on the other hand, is used by one to bring the other to climax by use of, primarily, the mouth and tongue. For those couples who develop the required skills and self restraint, both can cum together using the 69 position. For me, although the sensations of a man's cock thrusting in my cunt are great and I do love a good fuck, cuming together during 69 is more emotionally satisfying than cuming together by fucking.
You have to develop an understanding of the intimate feelings and emotions that occur while you're performing oral sex and during a climax, and how to respond to those feelings. Giving head is much more intimate than fucking and, if approached with the right attitude, can be more emotionally satisfying. Both the man and woman need to become familiar with what the other's emotional needs are, not just what it takes to make each other cum.
Only in the movies does a man grab a woman and say, take your clothes off, I want to fuck, or vise-versa. You have to pick a time and place other than the kitchen where the baby has just thrown a bowl of food all over your wife, although it might be a welcome distraction right abought then. Giving head requires at least as much emotional preparation as fucking. For the subject to even come up, one partner has to have built up the desire. That partner then has to build up the desire in the other partner.
Getting the other to let you bring them to orgasm is generally the easiest. If you just want to eat her pussy or she just wants to suck your cock, then all that's required is a willingness to submit, and this is important, with the expectation of achieving orgasm. Getting the other to bring you to orgasm requires the art of gentle persuasion. If you just want her to suck your cock or she just wants' you to eat her pussy, a slightly different situation exists. A woman can probably convince a man to eat her pussy without much effort. All that's generally required is for him to be in a reasonably good mood. If he just wants her to suck his cock, and she wasn't already thinking about sex, then he's going to have to get her in the proper mood first.
You'll find out that no matter who starts, the other will probably end up getting head also, either that or you'll end up fucking. Given this inevitable result, it's nice if both of you can build each other up first. Once you're both ready, he should give her head first, or you should use 69. A man comes down from his climax too quickly, and takes too long to build back up sufficiently to move right into doing a good job of eating pussy, unless he had that on his mind from the beginning.
It's fairly easy for a man to learn to do a good job of eating a woman's pussy. If he's sensitive, gentle and pays attention to what's in this book, she'll love it.
About the only problem the uninitiated man has is over the perceived bad smell and taste of a woman's secretions. Many men, and women, think that the tastes and odors associated with a woman's pussy are offensive. This isn't so, the natural fragrance and taste of the fresh secretions from a clean healthy woman are usually beautiful and erotic to a man. This question needs to be settled at the very beginning. A couple should take turns tasting and smelling her pussy's natural fluids when she's fresh and clean. Once a man tries it, the taste and smell of a woman's sex will excite him and he'll look forward to it. When a man fingers a woman and then smells, licks, sucks the juice off his finger and sighs as if in heaven, she'll forget this problem and he can dive right in.
It's more difficult for a woman to become a good cock-sucker, but the rewards can be worth the effort. There are three basic problems that confront a woman, the first two are, how much of his cock should she take into her mouth, and what does she do with his cum. The answers to the first two are, all of it, and swallow it. The third problem is, how does she get all of that cock in her mouth. The answer to the third is in the following lessons.
As you'll see later, the shaft of a man's cock isn't overly sensitive to touch on any particular spot, but it does respond to pressure, and there are a lot of nerve endings when you include all of it. Don't forget that much of the pleasure we derive from sex is in the mind, it's psychological, emotional. When a man feels a woman's warm soft mouth and tongue giving his cock a workout, feels her trying to suck his balls out through it, sees her look up at him as her lips slide down over it until her face is buried in his bush, the overall feeling is hard to describe. When you take all of this into account, she should take all of his cock into her mouth and throat at appropriate times while she's giving head.
It's not a big deal with most men if a women doesn't want to swallow his cum, he just doesn't want her to take his cock out of her mouth until he's finished cuming. When he's fucking you, you feel that you're drawing him into yourself when you cum, part of his sexual makeup is a mirror image of yours, he feels that he's being drawn into you when he cums. He needs for you to keep his cock in your mouth, continuing to increase the intensity of your fellatio, until he cums and his climax lets down. It's a real letdown for him if you take his cock out of your warm soft mouth just as he's reaching the climax that you've both worked so hard for and jack him off into a wet towel.
I said that the rewards can be worth the effort. Lying there with a man's throbbing cock buried deep in your throat and your face buried in his bush can feel almost as good as having it in your cunt, and a lot more intimate. Feeling a man cum in her mouth while she carries him through the end of his orgasm and then swallowing it after he's finished becomes a sensual thing for a woman, part of her natural desire to participate in his orgasm to the fullest extent, drawing his love juices into her as he climaxes. You'll find out that taking his cum into your mouth and swallowing it can be an intensely intimate act for both, it can be a significant symbolic gesture of love.
Good sex isn't just the pleasure of reaching a climax, it's when you share each other's climax, it's when a woman's efforts to bring her man to climax excite her to the point where she could almost cum, sometimes his climax drives her over the top. It's the same for the man. When a man is passionately eating out a woman's pussy, he's got a hard-on that won't quit. He wants to bury his face in her muff and thrust his tongue into her cunt, join with her body. It's not unusual for a man to get so worked up emotionally while he's eating a woman's pussy that he cums while he's doing it, and none of his sex organs are involved except his mind.
Sex should not be all oral. When the opportunity presents itself, like when you're passionately eating her out, she's starting on her second orgasm and is really hot, you've got a hard-on that just won't quit and she's lying at the edge of the bed with you between her legs. You look down and see that if you just got up on your knees your cock would find itself in her cunt, go ahead and shove it in there and give each other a good fuck. Some women say that they feel lonesome when they're receiving head, they want to be held and kissed. This is why moving from eating her pussy smoothly into fucking her can be very satisfying, it's also a good reason for 69.
This book is in two parts, the first, how to eat pussy, the second, how to suck cock. A final section gives an example of how to blend the best of both sexual worlds, oral and coitus. I hope you learn your lessons well and have many years of pleasure putting what you learn into practice.

The Art of Cunnilingus
or
How to Eat Pussy
Introduction
This section is for men who want learn how to properly eat a woman's pussy, or who've heard that it might not be all that bad to put their face down there, and for women who want to get their man to eat them period, improvement in performance can come later.
I am not an expert. I am simply a woman who knows what she likes, and has had all too many experiences with men who didn't seem to have the vaguest idea what they were doing between her legs.
Eating a woman's pussy is about the most wonderful thing you can do for her. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and of course it makes her cum like crazy. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for most, it's the easiest way to cum with a man. You may have the littlest cock on the planet, but if you give great head, you'll be appreciated as a fabulous lover. Yes, it's that important. Besides, lots of women expect it these days so you might as well get to know what you're doing. Studies show that 90 percent of married couples under 25 give head and for couples over 50, at least 55 percent of the men are eating pussy, with 95 percent of the men and 82 percent of the women enjoying it.
Many guys seem to have a strange love/hate relationship with women's genitalia. Guys that can't wait to get their cock into one are often reluctant to put their face "down there." For every guy who says he loves to eat pussy, there's another one who's squeamish. Women know this, and it affects their ability to lie back and enjoy the experience.
This is for you gals. Before you can get him to eat pussy for the first time, you need to get him worked up about the idea, that is, get him to think about sex for a few minutes, but don't do anything to make him cum yet. He's got a sex switch in his brain that turns on when he sees a woman, especially a naked one, and turns off as soon as he cums, this is why who does what first can be very important in the beginning, less so as the two of you mature. Fortunately, it won't take much to get him to eat you the first time, just undress and ask him to, let him look at your pussy for a while, show him your clit and let him play with it, promise him a good fuck afterwards or a blowjob if you've read the second section, if he seems the least bit interested straddle his head and rub your bush over his face.
What's Down There?
This is for you guys. Most men don't really know what they've been sticking their cock into. Many women also don't appreciate what they have, and can't understand why a man would think that it was beautiful, let alone want to put his face in it.
Why would a man like to eat pussy? Most men I know who really love women and want make having sex with them a joint endeavor rather than a conquest, also like to eat pussy. They don't want to just eat her, they want to bring her to a great climax and then build her up for a fuck that neither will forget, or maybe get a good blowjob if that's what she wants to do. I think that there are two basic reasons. First, many men want to give their woman the most sexual satisfaction they can, they enjoy pleasing her and will go to great lengths to do so, the more their woman likes what they are doing to her, the harder their cocks get until sometimes they cum just from eating her. The second is the role that the mouth, tongue, taste and smell play in sex. Why do people kiss? They receive pleasure from the interaction that takes place during a kiss. The mouth, lips and tongue are some of the more erogenous zones of the body and are active rather than passive, you do something with them. You nibble on her ears, kiss and suck on her nipples, kiss her navel, why not kiss and suck on the most sexual part of her body, her pussy. The tastes and odors of the fresh secretions from a clean healthy woman's pussy are also erotic to many men. Put this all together and your mouth in her pussy is where it's at guys.
Now that you've got your woman out of the shower, on the bed, and fairly well warmed up (or she's got you there), stop and look at what you see. Leave the lights on, or get a flashlight or something, so that you can examine her carefully. Take a good look at what's between her legs. Beautiful, isn't it? There's nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I know. I've seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl's cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz.
The first thing you see is her muff. It should be the same color as the rest of her hair but who knows these days. It has a slightly different texture than the hair on her head and can cover a large or small area but usually just up over the mons area, that fleshy mound over her pelvic bone, and down each side of her pussy to its lower end. It usually does not spread out to her thighs and has sparse growth partially onto the outer lips.
Don't worry, looking at it won't make you go blind. Nestled in the midst of her muff are the outer, or major, lips of her pussy (they are vertical on all women). They are not overly sensitive to touch on the outside (but it's a good place to start), about the same as the shaft of your cock. They extend from the upper part of the hood that covers her clit to more or less the bottom of her pussy. They're thick and luscious in the middle and thin out at each end blending into her body. Some are almost closed while others are open to varying extents, allowing the inner pleasures to peep through. They don't generally come together completely at the top, exposing the upper cone of the clitoral hood, and less so at the bottom, giving you a glimpse of the bottom of the vaginal entrance where the lower parts of the inner lips surround it.
Underneath the outer lips are the inner, or minor, lips. These are much thinner, more sensitive and fun to play with. At the top they form the cone-shaped hood that protects the sensitive clit, closing in under the clit and then coming back out to continue down to the bottom of the vaginal entrance. They tend to blossom out between the outer lips, especially near the bottom.
Between the underside of the clit and the bottom of the vaginal opening lies the vestibule, your new playground. Although the clit's hood is a part of the inner lips, they appear to only cover the vestibule. The urethra and vagina open into the vestibule. Excluding the obvious first place role of the clit, it's the vestibule and the entrance to the vagina where a lot of the action takes place.
I've saved the best for last, the clitoris or clit, accent on the first syllable. Most of you know it, but for those who don't, it's THE woman's sex organ, period. It may feel great to be fucked vaginally or otherwise, but if the stimulation isn't right there, on the clit, you're ignoring the place that's going to make her cum, and presumably that's why you're reading this, right? It's right there at the top juncture of her inner lips, a small knob of pink flesh. This is where it's at boys, and don't forget it. Almost any licking and sucking of the labia or vaginal entrance are going to feel just dandy; just remember that's pleasurable, teasing, not the main event. I can't tell you how many guys have thrust their tongues up my cunt thinking that that was going to make me cum. They were wrong. Of course, with a little manual stimulation . . . but I'm getting ahead of myself.
Women feel differently about how much direct stimulation they can take on their clit. Some women will adore it if you suck hard on their exposed clits, others will shriek in pain. You may encounter a woman who is completely unable to take direct stimulation of her clit; the goal is still the same, but you'll have to stimulate it indirectly, such as through her labia. IMPORTANT NOTE: Often, what is unacceptably rough at first, may be fine after she's very excited. The fact is, most women really need a good bit of stimulation before a targeted attack on their clit, but once they're ready, that's where you want to devote your attention.
Back off for now, rest your head on her thigh and just admire the view. Learn to appreciate your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her special. Describe what you see, in poets' words if you can, but in any way you can as long as it's with love and admiration.
Positions
You can give head to your woman in just about any position she can get herself into, floating on her back in a swimming pool with her legs around your neck, standing on a picnic table, however, some positions are obviously better than others. Giving good head to your woman on a lazy summer afternoon can take an hour or more if you play it right. That means that you both have to be in comfortable positions to enjoy it, or even endure it. That usually means a lying, sitting or reclining position. She has to be able to spread her legs comfortably and hold them in that position. She should not have to have the weight of your body on her, or hers on you. She also needs to be able to put her hands on your head and pull it against her. You need to be able to make eye contact with her while you are eating her. You have to be able to press your mouth to and your tongue in all of her pussy, including holding it deep in her cunt without getting a crick in your neck. You also have to be able to easily place your hands on her pussy and your fingers in her cunt.
The obvious place to start is a bed. She can recline comfortably against some pillows and watch you work. You can lie on your stomach between her legs, however, you'll have to tilt your head too far back to get your tongue in her cunt comfortably. Putting a couple of pillows under her hips to tilt her pelvis up will help with that problem. This is probably one of the better positions. Another good one, maybe the best, is for her to slide her hips to the edge of the bed and rest her feet on two overstuffed chairs that are spread apart enough for you to rest between them. They can be turned so that she can rest her knees against the arms or backs. A couple of pillows under her head and she can reach your head and watch to her harts content. You can rest on a soft cushion on the floor, your head resting on her thigh, sucking on her clit for hours and have easy access to all of your afternoon's pleasures.
And then there's 69. . . . 69 is one of my favorite positions. On the plus side, you both get to enjoy the sublime sensations of getting head simultaneously. The upside down positioning of a woman's pussy and your mouth is an easy fit and there's more room for your hands. On the negative side, it's a less than ideal position for a woman to suck cock and you may not feel comfortable with your nose in her anus when you French kiss her cunt. I also love for a man to reach down, thrust his tongue deep in my cunt and then slowly lap it back up to my clit which doesn't work well upside down. Plus, if you need to read this book, you may be better off concentrating your energies on pleasing her without too much distraction at first. But even for experienced 69'ers, it's easy to short-change your partner. "It feels soooo good, I'm just gonna stop for a second and concentrate on what you're . . . aaaarrrgghhh." Get the picture? Some show of willpower is in order.
She can also straddle your face which can be a lot of fun, but be prepared to get very wet. There are endless varieties of positions where you can press your face up to her pussy, some of which strike me as more acrobatic than erotic, but feel free to experiment.
Getting Started
For you gals who need instruction . . . just lie back and enjoy it, it'll grow on you. When he does something you like, tell him. Hold his head gently with your hands and guide him, talk to him, he'll love it.
Now for the men. So there you are, staring at it - the mysterious hole from whence you came, and into which you hope to cum again . . .
The key here is to go slow, ask questions, really explore her body. Body language often tells what feels best, but I promise, she'll appreciate your attentiveness if you ask outright. If she seems shy, get her to guide your hands and mouth with her own hands, and pay attention. Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs. Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during lovemaking. They respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it. There's nothing more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious. Don't be coy; tell her.
Many men, and women, feel that the tastes and odors associated with a woman's pussy are offensive. This isn't so, the natural fragrance and secretions of a healthy woman are beautiful and erotic, especially to a man. You both need to settle this question at the very beginning. Take turns tasting and smelling her pussy's natural fluids when she's fresh and clean. When you finger her and then smell, lick, suck the juice off your finger and sigh as if in heaven, she'll forget this problem and you can dive right in.
What if your sweet lady doesn't smell or taste very sweet? Don't suffer. (Don't complain, either.) Take a nice hot shower or bath together. Lather up both of your bodies and slide them together. It's like a whole body fuck. Soap up her pussy, washing between her outer and inner lips. Spread her lips apart and gently wash her clit. Hey, don't stop - this feels great! Run your soapy hand down the crack of her ass, and rub a finger all around her anus, washing the entrance/exit well. But don't put those soapy fingers up her cunt. Instead, rinse them off well and stick one or two inside, making a circular motion. Think about washing the inside of a tall glass - same thing. She may prefer to use a douche, if she does, help her do it, you can get your fingers in her cunt later. Now wasn't that fun? Now you can feel free to let your tongue wander anywhere it pleases . . .
Even though your woman wants you to eat her, she may still be somewhat hesitant about your going down on her. Don't just dive right in, warm her up with some serious kissing and cuddling. Move over on top of her and put your legs between hers. Use your elbows to keep some of your weight off her. Slowly work your way down her body, caressing, licking and kissing her ears, eyes, throat, breasts, navel, and wherever she likes. Press your body down on her muff and slide it around as you move down, getting her used to something being on it besides your hand and cock. Lap your tongue on down from her navel to the inside of her thigh. Raise her legs over your shoulders and rest your cheek on her muff while you continue to lick and kiss her thigh. Lick the crease between her thigh and pussy. Brush your lips over her muff as you turn your head over to work on her other thigh. Look up at her, make eye contact and smile while you rub your cheek over her pussy. When you see her facial expression begin to change to one of anticipation and feel her tilt her pussy up toward you, you know she's forgotten all about her hesitancy and you can start getting into the good stuff.
So now what? You've found a comfy spot to play, you've been kissing passionately, your tongues darting around in each other's mouths like playful otters. You've moved on down to some of the other interesting parts of her body and she's starting to groan, ready for you to eat her now, grinding her pelvis against you. STOP. I know it was just starting to get good. But was she really groaning and humping you, or was it your own excitement you were detecting?
I strongly prefer to be excited before a guy starts plunging his tongue into my inner recesses. Use your judgment, women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is one of her more tender spots. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy.
Nuzzle your face into her muff. Brush your lips over her pussy without pressing down on it to further excite her until she's arching up her back trying to get you to eat her. Of course, if she really was groaning and grinding, go for it . . . I also don't particularly enjoy a guy endlessly nibbling my inner thigh while my clit is quivering in anticipation.
Moisten your fingers and open her outer lips, examine them, taste the texture of the inner side with your tongue. See if her clit is starting to peek out from under its hood. Play with her inner lips with your lips and tongue. Open her inner lips and examine the vestibule. See if you can find her meatus, the opening for her urethra. Its sort of like the opening in the head of your cock that she plays with, now play with hers with your tongue. Look at the hole your cock has been playing around in. The entrance to her cunt looks like an open flower with its lower petals blending into the larger lowermost petals of the inner lips. Taste its juices with your tongue, they should be flowing now. Slip your tongue farther in and feel the texture, move it around in her cunt and watch her response.
But I'm getting ahead of myself again.
The Tongue
I want to repeat, there's almost nothing you can do with your tongue that won't feel terrific, so relax! I promise, you may be confused and uncertain, but she's in heaven. Any licking and sucking of her lips, cunt, or clit are going to feel just great, and I'd no sooner tell guys to "do it exactly like this" than I would tell every chef to follow the same recipe. But for those who are compelled to RTMF, here are a few techniques that you might like to try:
Play around in the vestibule, try lapping her pussy from her cunt up to her clit, leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed. This is a good way to start your tonguing. Run your tongue between the inner and outer lips on one side, while holding the two together with your lips. Good job, now do the other side. Fuck her cunt with your tongue - in and out, around and around, etc. This feels nice. Not wonderful or incredible or earthshaking, nice. Keep your tongue in her cunt for a while, moving the tip around and around and . . . That feels better, now lick up to her clit again and kiss it, watch her shudder. Feel the texture of the tip of her clit with your tongue, notice the taste of it. Spend some time slowly licking your tongue over all of her pussy, savoring the various tastes and textures.
Spread her outer lips with your hand. Then, with your tongue pointed and stiff, gently flick here and there. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clit. This drives some women wild, and others can't take it. Some may prefer that you always leave your tongue soft, so when you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstasy or pain.
The following techniques should not be introduced until your partner is really hot (i.e., she's no longer coherent). These are very intense actions which may be "too much" for some women, even when nearing orgasm.
With her clit still exposed, give it a quick little suck - pulling it into your mouth briefly and letting it go. This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your pinky. This feels incredible, and is a fine thing to do if you feel like torturing her (see PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER below).
Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently (at first, anyway) suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm.
Another choice technique involves rolling your tongue into a tube. If you can't do this with your tongue, you can't learn it - it's genetic. For those who can, this works best in an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around the shaft of her clit. Slide it up and down; in effect, your tongue makes a tiny cunt for her clit to fuck. This also is likely to bring her over the edge.
Fingers
Fingers are valuable adjuncts to eating pussy. Most women masturbate by pressing a finger or fingers over their clit, possibly "thru" the skin of their lips, and vigorously rubbing in a circular or back-and-forth direction. You can do this too, ask her, or better yet, have her show you how she likes it done. You'll never be a good lover until you can bring your woman to climax with your hands. When you fuck her from behind, or really in any position which doesn't allow her to simultaneously rub her clit against your body, reach down or around and rub her clit. I know it's distracting, but just do it anyway. One important point to note: make sure that your fingers are well lubricated and most of all, your nails cut, I mean cut back to the quick and sanded smooth. The slightest hangnail can be very painful when raked over that tender flesh. There's nothing more uncomfortable (and sometimes downright painful) than a dry finger or hangnail roughly rubbed across one's clit.
Of course, that's not all you can do with your fingers. One technique which is very exciting is to spread her lips wide apart with one hand, and with your index finger straight like a pencil, flick the side of it rapidly across her clit. This motion alone will often bring a woman to orgasm. Combining this with the addition of some tongue action elsewhere is nothing short of bliss.
Sticking one or more fingers inside her cunt can also be wonderful. How many fingers you use depends on the woman. Some women don't want you to stick your finger in their cunt at all, some like only one (at least at first), some like their cunt to be full so the more the better (within reason). You can simply move them in and out (this feels best with at least two or three fingers pushed in hard) or wiggle them around. A particularly intense motion is to face your hand so that you have two fingers inside her with your palm facing the front of her body. Now move your fingers rapidly, as if waving hello. You're aiming to stimulate a particular part of the woman's vagina - namely the lower anterior (front) part. When combined with sucking her clit, this is nearly certain to bring her to a fast and intense climax.
If you're between her legs, busily eating away, and want to finger her at the same time, your thumb (or thumbs) may be the best ones to use. It is difficult to turn your other fingers around to work on her "G" spot. It also allows you to use your other fingers on her clit and the rest of her pussy.
An excellent way to begin manual stimulation is to stick one (and later two) fingers inside her, with your palm cupped over the mons area. I'm talking about that fleshy "mound" over her pubic bone. Your finger goes in and out and the ball of your hand is pressed hard against her pussy. You may want to rub or even shake the entire area with your palm.
Putting it All Together
I think variety is crucial. Some guy posted an article detailing a road map of kissing and licking (first here, then here, etc.) Much better to do the unexpected, sometimes a hungry, aggressive approach, other times a laid-back, leisurely one. You can even include your nose, or your chin in the act. Start slowly, that's the key, and let your lover guide the speed of the crescendo, try playing Ravel's Bolero and keep pace with the time and intensity of the music. In all cases, start gently. Roughness and clumsiness are big turn-offs. As she gets more excited, pay more attention to her clit. As she gets closer to orgasm, don't leave her clit for more than a moment or two. It's great to move down to her cunt and then right back to her clit. If you're between her legs with your tongue in her cunt, look at where her clit is, right under your nose. Don't just look at it, use your nose and keep up the stimulation of her clit while you're thrusting your tongue around in her cunt. If you're in the 69 position, then use your chin on her clit while you French kiss her cunt.
When she's three breaths away from cumming, moving your mouth off or away from her clit is agony. That's fine if you're intentionally torturing her, just understand that this is what you're doing. The only prohibition is to be reasonably gentle with her clit. Nibbling or biting is fine elsewhere, but we're talking about a sensitive spot.
Speaking of prolonging the agony . . . I think this is great fun. Bring your partner just to the edge of orgasm, and < stop >. This isn't easy unless you really know your lover well. Just have her help you. Say, "Grab my head and stop me just before you think you're gonna cum." Then take your sweet time. Blow on her clit, take it into your mouth just briefly, flick it just the slightest bit with your tongue. You'll have this woman squirming and moaning like she's dying. Finger her deeply, enjoy the ecstasy you're imparting, and finally, have pity. Let the poor woman cum.
OK, lets get back to where we were when we got off onto those tricks with tongues and fingers. You were lying there with your tongue up her cunt trying to find out what it felt like inside, nice wasn't it, she liked it didn't she. Open her outer and inner lips with your fingers. Get your whole mouth into the act. Press your lips against the lips of her cunt, Run your tongue in as far as you can get it and French kiss her cunt, long and hard. Tongue-fuck her for a while, watching her response, she liked that too, then slide your tongue out of her cunt. She's hot now, don't lose contact with her pussy, keep your mouth or tongue working on something. Slowly lap your tongue up the length of her vestibule to her clit and gently lick it a few times, a little harder as she raises her crotch up to you.
Play with her pussy lips with your lips and tongue, up and down, both sides. Kiss her cunt again and lap your tongue back up to her meatus and play with it a little, then on up to her clit again, pulling gently on it with your lips. Run your tongue back down to the bottom of her pussy and then, keeping your tongue on the outside of her lips, lap it all the way up to the top. Show her how much you like to eat her. Open your mouth wide and close it down over her pussy taking as much in as you can. press your mouth hard against her, rocking your head around and around while you find her clit with your tongue and start to lick it. She's running her fingers through your hair now, watching you intently, mouth open making those sexy sounds women make when they're really on the way up.
Release her lips and look up at her face, make eye contact, watch her expression and feel her raise her pussy up to you as you gently suck the head of her clit into your mouth, open wider and take its hood in, holding it with your lips. Let her clit slip back under its hood, then suck it into your mouth again, flicking it with your tongue, let it slide back out under its hood and suck it back into your mouth again and again until it's sliding in and out like she was fucking you with it. Slide your hands up along the sides of her pussy, working your thumbs into her cunt, fingering the top of it in time with the strokes of her clit. She's grabbed your head, setting the pace as she pulls you to her harder and harder, rocking her crotch back and forth faster and faster. You've found what she wants and she's gonna cum and you'd better not stop until she does . . . and then some.
69
69 can be done male on top, female on top, or side by side. The latter two are easier, though it's more restful with both partners lying down. Some women love being licked on all fours, so if female-on-top 69 drives her wild, take the hint and find ways to eat her in this position. All she has to do is slide her knees out and you'll find your mouth in her pussy. I happen to enjoy male on top, but for women who haven't learned to deep-throat, this is a sure choking position. If your woman wants to deep-throat you while you're eating her, male-on-top is THE 69 position. When her head is tilted back, especially if you're taller than she is, you can really slide your cock all the way down her throat. But don't forget what you're supposed to be doing! Each of you must realize that you can't let up on what you're supposed to be doing just because what the other is doing feels so good. Instead of letting up, let the pleasure you're feeling enhance what you're doing. It's sort of like a payback, you're making me feel so good I'm going to make you feel even better. Once you've mastered throat fucking, man on top 69 can really get interesting, he can eat you and fuck you at the same time. The only problem comes when he can't make up his mind whether to concentrate on fucking or sucking. Don't worry about it, just lie there and enjoy it, let him sort it out, he'll get around to finishing both jobs.
The element that must be in place for good 69 is simple: Both of you must be experienced! Each of you must realize that when what the other is doing feels so good, you can't just let up on what you're supposed to be doing to enjoy it. Instead of letting up, let the pleasure you're feeling enhance what you're doing, share each other's emotions. That's why, when my lover and I engage in oral sex, we like 69 so much, we can build each other's pleasure to such wonderful simultaneous climaxes.
As I said earlier, some women feel lonely when you're eating their pussy, they want something to hug. Well, you can give them something. Eat her in a side by side 69 position and let her hug your cock, with her mouth. She can put her arms around your hips, press her breasts against you and hold your cock in her mouth while you put her on cloud nine, just make sure you tell her not to distract you too much.
If you have a man who is not in the least interested in giving head and only likes to receive it, then to attempt sixty-nine is to ask for unhappiness in your relationship. You can tell if he really likes to eat your pussy. See if you can find a time when the two of you are in bed naked on your backs and he doesn't have a hard-on. Quietly roll over onto your knees, straddle his head and slowly rub your muff over his face, letting your moist lips slide over his nose and mouth. Look back at his cock. If it springs up toward the ceiling and you find his tongue in your cunt, then he likes it.
UUUUNNNNGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!! (or, I'M COMING!!!)
Okay, she's grabbed your head and pressed your face into her muff; she's practically suffocating you, she's screaming and bucking up in the air; you feel her cunt contracting wildly - how long should you keep it up?? The answer is simple, until she makes you stop. Some women may stop you after five seconds from the start of their climax, others may be able to roll right into another orgasm if you'd just keep going. Do come up for air, but remember, her excitement does not drop off as sharply as yours does. Play it safe by continuing the stimulation.
If you're sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one whose nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover. When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers are inside, move them a little, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now. If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way, a woman stays excited for an hour after she's had an orgasm.
How many times does she need to cum? Some women are very content to have one orgasm. A whole lot of women would really like to cum again, but need about five minutes to recoup. Many women are so sensitive right after they cum that they may push your head violently away. This doesn't necessarily mean they've had enough, only that you need to stop for a few minutes. In fact most women, given a short rest between, are capable of cumming again and again. A smaller percentage of women are able to cum repeatedly with continued stimulation. This is the much-touted multiple-orgasm that's experienced by a minority of women. I know this makes it difficult to know when enough is enough, but there's a simple answer: ask her.
After you've made her cum, don't leave her alone just yet. A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman, by nature, requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Don't wipe yourself off, walk around the bed to get to the other side, go to the bathroom. Maintain close physical contact, work your way from where you were when she climaxed to holding her in your arms. Lie close together, arms and legs intertwined, wet bodies pressed close together, let your cock lie in the folds of her pussy. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she's come all the way down, or, if nature allows, builds back up. If you've just finished my favorite 69, do some serious kissing. Taste your own juices as her tongue brings traces of it into your mouth while your tongue passes her woman's essence to her taste buds. Taste the delicious mixtures as your tongues dart back and forth, mixing the sweet cunt and cock sex juices in your mouths. Who knows what new pleasures this could lead to as your passions begin to rebuild.
GODI'MSOEXCITEDITFEELSGREATBUTIJUSTCAN'TCUM
It happens to all of us sometimes - distraction, embarrassment, anxiety, or just an inability to "let go." What do you do about it? The first question is, can she easily bring herself to a climax in the privacy of her own home. If the answer is no - then she needs to do some homework. There are two books on the subject that I know of: "For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality" by Lonnie Barbach, and "Sex for One: The Joy of Self-loving" by Betty Dodson; pick up one. Then tell her to read it, study it, and practice, practice, practice!
Now if your partner is orgasmic only when alone - ask her point blank: "Is there something different I can do?" Many women are shy about criticizing their lovers, but if asked outright will surprise you with a very specific answer. It may be a simple matter of mechanics, like a little to right, please, or not so rough, or more pressure and faster. Ah . . . perfect.
But suppose everything is wonderful. She says you're doing everything right but she just can't cum. There are two probable causes: self-consciousness and/or self-loathing. For women who can't help watching themselves, the best approach is to eliminate anything that focuses her attention on what the two of you're doing. This is a "be here now" kind of thing - definitely not an introspective activity. Get that mirror off the ceiling. Dim the lights or turn them off completely. Put on some soft music. Share a glass of port. (I said A glass - getting drunk will definitely not help). Have her lie on her back, or propped up comfortably with some pillows. This isn't the time for her to sit on your face, or the edge of the bed, or stand up against a wall. Arrange a time when you can devote a long period to eating her pussy, and then just keep it up. Forget everything I said about asking her questions - just close your eyes and get into it. I know this can be a difficult and exhausting exercise, but she'll be extravagantly thankful for your efforts. It gets easier each time. If all else fails, get accustomed to masturbating together. Gradually begin to add your stimulation to her own, right before she's about to cum anyway. Over time, you can take over completely.
For women who feel that their pussys are dirty or distasteful, all of the above methods may be helpful, but the underlying issue must also be addressed. I am amazed at how many women are ambivalent about their own genitals. They don't love "that part" of their body, and they can't believe that you would either. Yes, it's important to be clean. But clean means a daily shower which includes washing their pussy. It doesn't mean vainly attempting to remove every trace of smell or taste. The natural taste and fragrance of the fresh secretions from a healthy woman's pussy are beautiful and erotic. Hopefully you agree (and if not, try hard to cultivate this attitude). When she learns to love her pussy, she'll be infinitely more comfortable with your loving it too.
Menstruation
I haven't met a lot of men who are completely comfortable going down on a woman when she has her period. But some are. Most women are at their horniest before and sometimes during their period. You should definitely find a way to make her cum when she's bleeding, be it through fucking, manual, or oral stimulation. If you feel comfortable going down on her, great, it's perfectly safe. As you now know, you don't need to get anywhere near her cunt to make her cum. You may suggest that she insert a tampon, and then wash up. Or you could lay down a few old towels, turn out the lights, and forget about menstruation.

The Art of Fellatio or How to Suck Cock

Introduction
This chapter is for those gals who wonder what sucking a mans cock is all about, think they might like to do it, or already do it but want to learn how to both give and receive more pleasure from it. It will teach them the skills they need so that both they and their partner can receive more pleasure from fellatio.
Studies show that from 50 to 80 percent of women perform fellatio. Of those, 35 to 65 percent find it pleasurable, with the rest saying they can take it or leave it or don't enjoy it. Other studies show 90 percent of married couples under 25 giving head. If you're just sucking cock because your man wants you to, read on, your man may find himself waking up in the middle of the night with his cock in your mouth.
Why would a woman like to suck a man's cock? Why would she even want to put his cock in her mouth? First off, you have to have a man with the right attitude about sex and your needs before you should even think about putting his cock in your mouth or anywhere else in you for that matter, enough said. I've sucked a few cocks over the years and talked to many women who have also. Some women submit to sex, some accept it, some willingly participate when aroused, but some really like it and don't always wait for their man to initiate it. Unfortunately, a lot of those women who only submit to or accept sex simply have a lousy lover. Most women I know who really like sex also like to suck cock. I don't like to suck cock instead of fucking, I like it as a supplement to fucking. Sucking a man's cock makes my cunt ache to have one in it. I love to suck him off and then keep working on his cock until I can get him hard enough to fuck me. Those fucks are some of the best I've ever had, well, maybe tied with having him eat me first.
But never mind who does and who doesn't do it, I think that the reasons those who do suck cock do it are similar to the two that make men like to eat pussy, plus a third unique to women. First, they have a loving caring man and the more he likes what they do, the hotter their cunts get. The second is the role that the mouth and tongue play in sex. Why do people kiss? They receive pleasure from the interaction that takes place during a kiss. The mouth, lips and tongue are some of the more erogenous zones of the body and are active rather than passive, you do something with them. You nibble on his ears, kiss and suck on his nipples, kiss his navel, why not kiss and suck on the most sexual part of his body, that thing you love to have thrust into you, his cock. The third is the almost subconscious sexual desire of a woman to draw a man into her body, when she gets hot she wants his cock in her, and her mouth is an inviting place to put it. Put this all together and his cock in your mouth is where it's at gals.
Just for a minute, forget how good it feels to a man for a woman to take his cock into her soft loving mouth, lick it, suck it, slide her lips down over it until she has her face buried in his bush.
Let your imagination conjure up images of your favorite movie star's cock in your mouth. It's live, warm, feel it throb as his hart beats. Feel it pulse as he tightens his muscles. Imagine sucking it inside you and bringing him to climax.
Sucking a man's cock can be one of the pure pleasures in a woman's life. It's sad to think that many women don't appreciate just how much fun it can be. One reason for this, outside of being with the wrong man, is that they don't know how to suck cock and so it doesn't end up being much fun. Because if you mess up, you don't get your reward. The cock doesn't get hard, the man doesn't have a good time and the woman feels like a failure. Other reasons are: a man's cock is dirty; he urinates through it; he won't respect me if I do it; he'll cum in my mouth. The answers are: if he washes his cock, it's as clean as your finger that you willingly put in your mouth; urine is not poison and doesn't carry germs, besides he doesn't urinate when he has a hard-on; he'll probably love you for it and give you head to boot; he won't cum in your mouth if you don't want him to, besides you'll probably want him to when you get into it.
Many women who do give head seem to think that simply making a cunt of their mouth, closing it around a man's cock, and bobbing their heads lustily up and down until he climaxes automatically makes them experts. Tant so girls!
But here's the good news; it's easy to learn how to be a terrific cock-sucker and once you find out how to do it right, your man will love it and so will you. It'll take some practice, but that's work?
What's Down There
But first things first. Let's talk about the "basic cock." LOOK at his cock. I don't mean a casual glance, study that thing you're thinking about wrapping your lips around. You've had it in your cunt and it felt good there, it just might feel good in your mouth. He'll be glad to let you look at it, if you want to look at it, you just might want to do something else with it.
Turn on a strong light and get him flat on his back on your bed. Take his cock in your hand and see if you can get it hard. Now, take a close look at it. The main part is called the shaft. There's a bulbous part near the outer end, slightly larger in diameter than the shaft, which is called the glans penis or head. The ridge where the head joins the shaft is called the corona. This is the most sensitive part of his cock. Follow this ridge around to the underside. There's a juncture where the two ends come together. This tiny area is easily the most sensitive spot on his entire body. Just like your clit, this is where the action is. You can bring him to climax by gently tapping the tip of your tongue directly on it. The opening in the tip of the head is the meatus. Here's where that cum that's been squirting out into your cunt has been coming from.
The shaft doesn't have many nerve endings over a particular area or any special nerves. As a result, it doesn't provide a man with any high degree of stimulation when caressed, either with your hand or your tongue. The shaft will, however, respond to pressure. There is also power in numbers, so when all of its nerves are fully enclosed in a warm, wet mouth that's sucking and slipping and sliding around on it, the feeling is great. The deeper the better girls.
Underneath the shaft, where it joins his body, is the scrotum, and inside are the testicles (family jewels, balls, nuts). This is where his sperm is created. You're born with all of your eggs, but he continuously manufactures sperm to fertilize those eggs. They're also sensitive to temperature, they don't like to get too hot or too cold. When his balls get too cold, the scrotum shrinks and pulls his balls up against his body to keep them warm. When they get too warm, the scrotum extends to let them cool. His balls are also pulled up against his body inside his scrotum when he's getting ready to cum. His balls are sensitive to excessive pressure and are all too often ignored as an erogenous area. Big mistake! Men actually like for a woman they trust to play with their balls, if they know how to do it.
Study his cock, play with it with your hand, ask him what feels best. Run your tongue over it, feel the texture, watch his reactions as you lick the various areas. Take some of it in your mouth and hold it there for a while. Watch his reaction and think about how it feels in your mouth physically and what it feels like to have your man's cock in your mouth emotionally.
There are other parts of a man's body which respond well to oral stimulation. Spend some time finding them.
Getting Ready
Now that you've taken time to really look at his cock and play with it some, you've gotten beyond "Parts is parts" and recognize that some parts are more equal than others. It takes a reasonable amount of skill and practice to become a good cock-sucker, to know how to work on those parts in a way that provides him with the pleasure he's looking for and enjoy doing it. Lets start in with the first lesson.
Where should you be when you're sucking his cock? Between his legs, on top of him, in a sixty nine position? Actually, any place where you can get his cock in your mouth, a car seat, chair, him standing on his head, it really doesn't matter as long as you're both comfortable. However, because of the way his cock and your mouth, lips, tongue, teeth and throat are made and what you have to do to his cock, you can make him enjoy it more and get more out of it yourself by kneeling between his legs. This can be with both of you on the bed or with his hips at the edge of the bed and you on the floor. You can make eye contact and he can easily stroke your head with his hands in this position. Deep-throating works better with slightly different positions but we'll get to that later, lets get his cock in your mouth first. Lets start out with both of you on the bed. The down side of you being on the bed is that holding your head up while you bend over his cock can tire you if you want to go at it for a long time but it'll be fine for these first lessons. You can stretch out between his legs and lay your head on his thigh with his cock in your mouth, but it's hard to do much with it in this position. A fairly common position, which also works well for deep-throating and throat fucking, is with him standing and you kneeling on a cushion in front of him.
We talked about him giving you head on a lazy summer afternoon in the first chapter, sometimes when you're giving him head, you'll want to just lie there and play with his cock. Maybe you've been fucking and he's cum a couple of times. You get the urge to give him a blowjob and can probably work up a hard-on for him with some effort, but it'll take a while for him to cum. The best position for this is probably the same as for leisurely eating pussy, him lying with his hips at the side of the bed, his feet and knees resting in chairs, you resting on a cushion on the floor with his cock in your mouth and his head on a pillow watching you. You can recline there with his balls in your hand and your head resting on his thigh, making eye contact while you suck on his cock for hours. If you want to tilt your head back to deep-throat his cock, just rise up on your knees and have at it. He can easily put his hands on your head in this position also. The side by side 69 position with your head on his thigh and his cock in your mouth is a nice comfortable position, it also puts his face enticingly close to your pussy. Try various positions. See what works best for the two of you.
What Do You Do With His Cum
If there's one thing you should try to cultivate a taste for it's his cum, you don't have to swallow it, just let him cum in your mouth. Any time you've had his cock in your mouth and he's been anywhere near cuming, some of his cum has been dribbling out of it and you probably didn't even notice it. It may seem that I'm devoting a lot of space to this subject. I am, but that's because it's currently a hot subject with many people going off on tangents about diets and using condoms and on and on. I think that his cum should be considered a part of his climax that has to occur with his cock in your mouth and that you should cultivate a taste for it. Although a lot of women like it's taste and look forward to it, it's not a pleasant taste for a number of women. However, it's a taste that can be cultivated and it becomes a pleasant experience if you just let your self get caught up in his climax and taste his orgasm, not just his cum.
I love the sensations of his pulsing, thrusting cock squirting his cum into my mouth and throat, but sometimes I like to watch it shoot. It gives me visual images for my wet dreams and besides, it's a thrill to see the spurting cum. It's amazing how that stuff shoots out. If you want to watch, you'll feel it coming with your hand and know when to back off. If you're fast, you can even try to catch some on your tongue. However, even though I like to watch it shoot, that's not necessarily what a man likes for it to do, not up in the air anyway. Lets face it, the male of the species' basic function in life is to impregnate the female. He does that by planting his sperm in her, not up in the air, as deep and often as he can.
He can control that desire to a point, but doing so robs him of a deep innate satisfaction that's very meaningful to many men, they're more emotional than they let on. He wants your body to suck all of that sperm out of his cock and swallow it up. Whether or not you swallow their cum is not a big deal with most men. They like to see you do it but they really don't want you to take their cock out of your mouth until they've finished cuming and started to come down from their emotional high. When he's fucking you, you feel that you're drawing him into yourself when you cum, part of his sexual makeup is a mirror image of yours and he feels that he's being drawn into you when he cums. He needs for you to keep his cock in your mouth, continuing to increase the intensity of your fellatio, until he cums and his climax lets down.
It's a real letdown for him if you take his cock out of your warm soft mouth just as he's reaching the climax that you've both worked so hard for and jack him off into a wet rag. It's almost like him pulling his cock out of your cunt just as you start to cum and finishing you off with his finger. So brace yourselves girls and keep that cock in your mouth until he's finished and you've both started to come down. You really were worked up over what you were doing weren't you? Besides, that's not a bad choice. Remember, he can jack himself off and watch it shoot on the shower floor without any help from you.
I'm not going to try and tell you his cum tastes like honey, it doesn't. What I am going to try and tell you is that its taste shouldn't be a big deal. Sex is messy, you get his cum and the juices from your cunt all over each other and the bed when you fuck and it doesn't matter until you have to clean it up. Most men will grab you, hug you and kiss you after you've finished giving them head, and they won't ask you to wash your mouth out first, it just doesn't matter in the heat of passion. The taste of cum varies from man to man and from time to time. One man's cum can taste good to one woman and bad to another. It has a texture similar to the white of a raw egg. It can be almost tasteless with a faint aftertaste that I can't quite describe. It's usually slightly salty and can be somewhat bitter. There's some evidence there's less taste if a man has had a vasectomy and there's no sperm in it, nice isn't it, he's safe and tasteless. There's also not much odor until it dries and then it's rather offensive.
You must remember, this is not like wine tasting where taste is everything, it's sex, and sex is mostly in the mind. I read a lot of questions from women about how bad cum tastes and what to do about it. I also read comments from those who say they love to take his cum in their mouths and swallow every drop of it. I think it's the same old story about a vocal minority opposing something they don't like while the silent majority either likes it or doesn't care one way or the other. I said something earlier about women I know personally who like sex liking to suck cock, all of them like for their man to cum in their mouths and look forward to swallowing it. Some say they like the taste, most say the taste just doesn't matter, they want him to cum in their mouth to complete his orgasm and their blowjob.
You do a lot of things when you're sexually aroused that you might not otherwise do. When you're giving him head, you're already sexually aroused, or else you wouldn't have his cock in your mouth in the first place. To enjoy giving him head You need to let yourself go and become immersed in bringing him to his orgasm. This works better if he's done his part and gotten you good and hot before you start, but not made you cum yet. The anticipation of him passionately eating out your pussy after you finish giving him head will keep your mind off such things as the taste of his cum and it running down your chin and dripping on your breasts while his cock is sliding in and out of your mouth. If you read the first chapter on eating pussy, you'll recall that the problem is similar to a man's first attempt at giving you head, accept that a woman's pussy does taste and smell like honey to many men after they get into it.
You'll probably let him cum in your mouth at first because you know it detracts from his orgasm if he doesn't and you want to give him as much pleasure as you can. You know it feels good to him and he likes to do it. Hopefully, taking his cum into your mouth will not be something you do just because he wants you to. As you let yourself get caught up in the emotions of having sex with your man, the thoughts, the anticipation of having his cock deep in your mouth and throat will excite you sexually. You'll want his cock in you, you'll fantasize about his cum shooting into your mouth, not to taste it but to taste his climax. You'll do all you can to bring him to climax, eagerly waiting for his cock to start pulsing and thrusting in your mouth, signaling the beginning of his orgasm. You'll suck hard on his cock as it pulses to increase his pleasure, waiting for his cum to start so you can suck it out and let it shoot into your mouth. You'll feel his cum spurting out with each pulse of his cock, taste it as you suck out the last drops and swallow them and then lick his cock clean like you were sucking the juice off a popsicle. You'll may find yourself wanting to keep his cock in your mouth for a while after he cums until you start to let down from the sexual high you were on while you were sucking him off.
If you don't want to start out with him cuming in your mouth, let him cum in your hand. Then stick your tongue in it and taste it. Let him taste it at the same time, he'll do it if he's concerned about your needs. Dip your tongue in it and then give him a deep French kiss. Now take just enough in your mouth to be able to fully experience its flavor and texture, swish it around with your tongue and then spit it out. Don't wash your mouth out, just let the flavor slowly dissolve as it mixes with your saliva and learn about its aftertaste. Try taking the rest of it in your mouth and holding it there, then spitting it out. Once you get used to having a quantity of his cum in your mouth, try spitting out most of it and swallowing the rest.
When you've tasted his cum and feel you're ready to go for it, let him cum directly in your mouth, you don't have to take all of it the first time, there's only a spoon full or so, just take some of it in, pull his cock out, finish him off with your hand and let the rest squirt somewhere else, you can clean it up later. As you do it more often, you'll begin to like the sexuality of it and look forward to taking all of it, it becomes a sensual thing, a part of your natural desire to participate in his orgasm to the fullest extent, drawing him into you as he climaxes.
If you don't want to swallow it at first, spit it out. Then, smile up at him, take his cock back in your mouth and play with it for a while. Gently now, because it's sensitive just like your clit after you've cum, suck those last few drops out of it and lick it clean. This says, hey, I want your cock in my mouth when you cum, I want to suck your load out of your cock and feel it shoot into my mouth, I just don't want to swallow it. I bet you'll soon be looking forward to swallowing it, most women do, besides, it's not as messy that way. You'll find out that swallowing his cum can be an intensely intimate act for both of you, it can be a significant symbolic gesture of love. Good sex isn't just the pleasure of reaching a climax, it's when you share each other's climax. It's when your efforts to bring him to a climax excite you to the point where you could almost cum, sometimes his cum squirting into your mouth even drives you over the top.
If you like to swallow it and have learned to swallow with his cock in your mouth, swallow it as he cums, otherwise keep it in your mouth until he's done. If you're sucking on his cock while he's cuming, you won't have much cock in your mouth, just an inch or so. You should be able to swallow normally, just like you were drinking coke out of a bottle. When he's finished cuming, hold your lips tight around his cock, look up at him, and slide your mouth off it like you were sucking the juice off a popsicle, then swallow whatever is still in your mouth. Take his cock back in your mouth a couple of more times, sucking and licking it clean while maintaining eye contact and smiling. Let him know you like it.
I said earlier, you can either swallow his cum or spit it out. There's a third choice, if you're into deep-throating, he can shoot it into the bottom of your throat and it'll go straight down your esophagus into your stomach. We'll talk about deep-throating a little further on. For most men, it feels great, both physically and psychologically, for you to suck the cum out of their cock during orgasm, just like you were sucking it out of a straw. Your throat can't play with the head of his cock and suck on it while he's at the height of his orgasm, only your mouth can do that. You'll learn to use your mouth and throat to bring him up to a high level of excitement and then bring him to an intense orgasm with his cock in your mouth. Although sometimes you'll both want him to shoot his load down into the bottom of your throat, you still need to learn to take it into your mouth because you can give most men the greatest pleasure by completing their climax with their cock in your mouth.
Once you begin experiencing the pleasures of cock-sucking, you'll probably want to deep-throat his cock, it's that sexual thing of the more the better, he'll want all of his cock in you and you'll want all of his cock in you, it's a win win situation. There'll be times then, when his cock is sliding in and out of you from just inside your lips down to the bottom of your throat, that you'll both want to forget where his cock is and just let him cum, keeping up, or increasing, the intensity of your fellatio until he comes down from his orgasm. In this case, he'll probably leave a trail of cum from your lips to the bottom of your throat. We'll talk more about him cuming in your throat in the following sections.
Basic Playing Around
It doesn't matter what setting you choose, you can be home in bed or parked on your town's main street, just find whatever level of privacy you need to feel relaxed. For the purpose of these lessons let's say you're still on the bed where you were examining him and you managed to get his cock hard. Kneel down between his legs and take his balls in your left hand and his cock in your right. Squeeze his cock gently down toward the bottom of the shaft and get ready to suck. Run your tongue over your lips to get them good and wet and look into his eyes. Men love to watch their cock disappearing into a woman.
Now open your mouth just slightly to tease and excite him and come very close to his cock. Breathe on him, blow on him with your hot breath. Stick your tongue out again and reach for him, tease him. Making sure your tongue is dripping wet, begin at the bottom of his shaft and lick upwards, slowly. Turn your head sideways and pretend to take a bite of him, gently setting your teeth into his flesh. Wet him again with your tongue, use your hand to spread the liquid around. A wet cock looks and sounds a lot sexier than a dry one. Your left-hand meanwhile is massaging his balls, perhaps scratching them lightly with your fingernails. After you've licked his shaft lots of times and it's all wet and hard, he's going to start squirming with frustration if you don't start getting serious. A quick look up at his face will let you know when you're stretching things out too long. Teasing is great . . . to a point. A little experience in cock-sucking will teach you when you need to go on to better things.
On one of your upward swings with your tongue, from the base of his shaft to the rim of his knob, don't stop. Continue your long, wet lick up over the head of his cock, lingering at the hole in the center. Stick your tongue into it, but don't suck the head yet. Now run your tongue all the way around the rim of his knob several times, lingering to work on that sensitive spot on the bottom each time. Ask questions, find out how much he likes for you to work on that spot.
As I said earlier, the shaft of his cock does respond to pressure, and there are a lot of nerve endings when you include all of it. Don't forget that much of the pleasure we derive from sex is in the mind, it's psychological, emotional. When a man feels your warm soft mouth and tongue giving his cock a workout, feels you trying to suck his balls out through it, sees your lips sliding down over it until it fills your mouth, the overall feeling is hard to describe. When you take all of this into account, the deeper the better girls.
Each man is unique and so is his cock. Squeeze the shaft and see if some clear liquid pops up. If it does, dip your tongue into it and pull away. It will stretch with you and look fantastically erotic to him. Now, make like you love the stuff. Close in on that cock head like it was a chocolate ice-cream cone and take the whole knob into your hot mouth. Don't just open your mouth and close it around his cock, sliiide your wet lips down over it until they close around the shaft just behind the corona. Then gently suck on his cock just hard enough to pull a little more of it into your mouth. Sucking on it feels great to him, hold it there, listen to him moan. Now, move your head down quickly, sucking as much of his cock into your mouth as you can comfortable take. Don't worry, you won't choke so long as you don't try to take it in too far, we'll get to suppressing your gag reflex so you can take more of it in later. Encase the rest of the shaft of his cock with your hand. Remember the shaft is relatively insensitive to local stimulation. However, when you close your hand around his cock you give him the sensation of having his whole cock encased and that feels great.
Stay there with his cock filling your mouth. Feel it inside of you. When you get to where you can take it down into your throat, it can be almost as luscious as having one in your cunt. It grows in, uh, on you.
You're going to have to keep your jaws open wide enough to keep your teeth off his cock. When you first start out your jaws are probably going to get tired, it's sort of like sitting in a dentist's chair with your mouth open. You'll get used to it after a while. You can pull your lips back over your teeth for protection and let your jaws rest on his cock from time to time to relax them.
Now try the basic fellatio movements. First, slide your lips back up to the tip of his cock and flick your tongue against it. Try twisting your head from side to side, up and down, and around and around, making sure your moist lips stay in contact with his ridge as they slide around. Keep sucking on it, sometimes gently, sometimes hard. While you're doing this, gently move your moist hand up and down the shaft. He'll be getting antsy now, wanting you to take it all in. Don't let him, if he had his way it'd be over in two minutes and what fun would that be?
Then, moving as fast as he can handle it (don't let him cum yet), hold your hand against your lips and slide your mouth and moist hand up and down on his cock as if you're fucking him. Press your tongue against the bottom of his cock and let it's head slide back and forth between your tongue and the roof of your mouth, watch your teeth. You have to massage the head of his cock, not just the shaft. When he gets close to cuming, get ready for his climax. As he nears his climax, he may try to slide your mouth farther down over his cock. He wants all of his cock in your mouth. Instead, slide your mouth back up to the tip of his cock, working on the corona and sucking on it as you bring him to his climax. You need to feel the response of his cock to his climax in these early lessons.
We've been talking about sucking on his cock, but how do you suck on it? Besides just working on his cock with your lips and tongue when it's in your mouth, you should also be sucking on it any time its head is in front of your tongue (your tongue is what pulls the vacuum so its head has to be in front of your tongue for him to feel it where it counts). Sucking on the head of his cock feels quite different to him from licking it. Not just gentle sucks but strong ones, like you were trying to get something out of it, which you probably are by this time. Be careful though, don't pull a hickey on it. There are deep-sucks and little ones and both feel damn great. He may have a preference however, so watch his reactions. Taking just the knob in your mouth, suck on it as if it were a nipple or a straw while you're moving your mouth around the head with your lips massaging the coronal ridge. This feels so good to the man, it makes my cunt hot just thinking about it. The other suck is a long, sweeping one, where you suck his cock into your mouth as far as you can, and then pull your mouth back off it, sucking on it as if you were sucking the juice off a popsicle.
Any of these moves will feel great the first few times you do them, but after a while, it's as if the cock gets immune to feeling. When you sense this, change what you're doing. You don't want hi